For documentation and historical record, and since most of my posts in the next month will revolve around it I wanted to blog about the fact that in less than a month, I will be leaving my favorite city in America, and moving to sunny, warm, and really far away Florida.
I know many people think, ohhh, awesome, warm weather and Mickey! And I think no fall/cider donuts, and most importantly, the many people that have made this place the most amazing home for the last three years.
Mark is starting a new job-which is the really exciting part. He is thrilled, so obviously we are, too! It will be exciting to have him doing something he enjoys and also getting to be home more. Also exciting, is that my brother and his family-and also my parents live in the same town-so we will be going to people who love us. Another bit of trivia is that Mark and I actually "met" in Orlando...we had met prior to that, but he totally fell in love with me at a wedding there. :) (Our dear friends, The Johnsons, whose wedding it was are luckily still there and say they will claim us, also. Whew.)
The sad part is that when we first moved to GR Mark and I joked that I should stand in front of Meijer with a sandwich board saying I was looking for friends because I didn't really have any. God has blessed me so far beyond measure, and now I'm in physical pain to be leaving our dear Detroit/Chicago friends, Mark's awesome local family-aunts and uncles and grandparents, my MOPS group and steering buddies, my lunch bunch, my play group, my book club, my girlfriends, my nights out, and the worst, which I can barely type, is my sister and best friend. Three houses away, we have shared pantries, kids, dogs, extension cords, battery chargers, and millions of phone calls and texts even though we are so close. I love getting home at night and looking over to see her kitchen light on. Or being at her house and seeing that my house is on fire. But that was a different post. :)
I will close with this quote from Shauna Niequists's latest book. She speaks much more eloquently than I. And since I'm pretty much always about 2 inches from crying, it's nice to have someone else do the talking.
'This is what I've come to believe about change: it's good, in the way that childbirth is good, and heartbreak is good, and failure is good. By that I mean that it's incredibly painful, exponentially more so if you fight it, and also that it has the potential to open you up, to open life up, to deliver you right into the palm of God's hand, which is where you wanted to be all long, except that you were too busy pushing and pulling your life into exactly what you thought it should be. 'I've learned the hard way that change is one of God's greatest gifts, and most useful tools. Change can push us, pull us, rebuke and remake us. It can show us who we've become, in the worst ways, and also in the best ways. I've learned that it's not something to run away from, as though we could, and that in many cases, change is a function of God's graciousness, not life's cruelty.'
Come visit! I hear it's warm.
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I love that quote - truly profound! I'm so sorry for the pain of the change. But you seem like you have an awesome attitude about everything, so I'm sure you'll bring lots of fun to folks in Florida too ;) Hugs!
I love the raw honesty of this post. We love you so much and will miss you like crazy too! You're going to make a hundred new friends... don't forget about us.
I am so thankful for this post and so happy that you shared with us :) I'll save my sappy comments for a more private moment ;)
Tears flowing... Love you, friend! You will be missed more than you know.
love the post...i guess its really real then huh? you are such an amazing person and I'm so glad you were my neighbor for a little while and now my friend for life. Will miss you so much! Love your whole cute family!
heidi ... will be thinking of you as you make this difficult move. i about lost it when my sister moved away from indy so i know the feeling. i just know you'll make florida realize how great life with the dekornes is!!
As someone who has a really hard time with change too (and is usually 2 inches away from crying, as well :)), and I am so sorry you have to leave all these people you love so much. But I am happy that you will get to be closer to your brother and parents, and just think of all the lucky people in Florida who get to be friends with you now. :) I will be thinking of you and praying for you during this transition!!!
i will miss you so much...you so quickly became such a wonderful friend. thankfully you are moving to a place where i very much would like to visit. have i mentioned to you my fascination with roller coasters? i love them and vacations and YOU. try to stop me from coming:)
Love you, praying for you.
As you well know, the Lord wouldn't have something for you if you couldn't handle it. So exciting for a new job for Mark too!
We'll be praying that the packing goes well, which I'm sure is overwhelming to think about with three little ones and this busy time!
ahh..i am so sorry heidi. at least you moving to another place closer to water. That is always a bonus! Praying for you as you transition. Just think..you are going to make even more friends! ::)
i have a pit in my stomach :( because selfishly i will miss you all so much- you are such a special and dear friend. i'm glad i stalked your blog for a year so when we finally met at the softball field we could just cut to the chase ;) i KNOW God has a perfect plan for you guys- and for that I have joy!! i the mean time (before disney) i will be bugging you to hang out whenever possible....i need to bottle up my heidi fix to last me the rest of the winter ;)
ps- that last post is from me, not wes (although I know he will miss you too-- just signed in under his account...oopsy!)
love you, heids! you have the extra special gift of drawing people to you...just by being you! so sorry you have to leave a bunch of people you really love, but thankful that you already have a handful of people in FL who love you too! God is going to bless you and Mark (and A, K, and R) for trusting in Him! hugs!!
Love the Shauna Niequist quote. Love the reasons for wanting to stay and the community you've built around you here. Love you and will miss you so much. I did some googling for you--GR has an average of 2 hours of sunlight a day in December and Orlando has 6. I'm thinking the sun doesn't seem that bad right now...
Mark, I am so happy you found a job but hate to hear you are leaving the river. Hope you love your new place. Miss you. Have a great Christmas. P. S. I am in love with Kaiya!
Can't express how much you will be missed. We love each one of you so much.
we. love. you. if you get tired of the sunny warm climate, you can come visit us in the winter to play in the snow and see the mountains and be reminded of michigan...kind of, only different :-)
I am crying that you are having to leave your sweet sister, but I'm glad you'll be closer! Love you!
Good luck Heidi! Completely understand what you are going through. I was heartbroken when we had to move away from Illinois but there are great people everywhere and you will definitely find them!
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